{"id":13111,"date":"2024-03-07T10:28:02","date_gmt":"2024-03-07T17:28:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thewritespot.us\/marlenecullenblog\/?p=13111"},"modified":"2024-03-06T10:29:01","modified_gmt":"2024-03-06T17:29:01","slug":"its-all-grist-for-the-mill-weathering-the-ups-and-downs-of-the-creative-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thewritespot.us\/marlenecullenblog\/its-all-grist-for-the-mill-weathering-the-ups-and-downs-of-the-creative-life\/","title":{"rendered":"It\u2019s All Grist for the Mill: Weathering the Ups and Downs of the Creative Life"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"439\" height=\"598\" src=\"https:\/\/thewritespot.us\/marlenecullenblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Mary-Kole.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-13115\" style=\"width:180px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/thewritespot.us\/marlenecullenblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Mary-Kole.png 439w, https:\/\/thewritespot.us\/marlenecullenblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Mary-Kole-220x300.png 220w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 439px) 100vw, 439px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">Photo Credit: Erin VonRuden<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Guest Blogger Mary Kole writes about the creative journey<\/strong>:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As much as I wish this wasn\u2019t the case, the creative life is full of ebbs and flows, highs and lows, and any other image you want to ascribe to the push and pull of the artistic temperament. Whether you admit or not, you are a writer, a creative, and an artist, whatever that means to you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you find yourself grappling with writer\u2019s block or struggling to reignite your passion for writing, fear not. This is perfectly normal, and every writer faces these challenges at some point in their creative journey. And it is a journey. Some writers are only interested in publication, and I can absolutely see where they\u2019re coming from. But they will be in for a long and disappointing ride if they can\u2019t derive pleasure, satisfaction, and fulfillment from the act of writing <em>and<\/em> the artistic state of being that writers sometimes occupy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But what if \u201cthe act of writing\u201d and the \u201cartistic state of being that writers sometimes occupy\u201d isn\u2019t happening for you right now? What if this is one of those ebbs? Those lows? In this article, I\u2019ll suggest some ways to keep your creative spirit alive and thriving, even during dry spells. By reading, embracing some creativity development frameworks, freeing up a sense of play and inspiration, observing life through a writer\u2019s lens, writing <em>anything<\/em>, and switching projects when needed, you can weather the ups and downs of the writing life with resilience and determination.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here are some suggestions, offered in no particular order:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Read<\/strong> <strong>Like a Writer<\/strong>: When you aren\u2019t writing, you could be reading. There\u2019s nothing quite like reading like a writer, and seeing what your potential future peers are doing when they\u2019re at the top of their game. Read inside your genre, category, and target audience, and also outside of it. Take note of techniques you find interesting, writing styles that appeal to you, and also those things you wouldn\u2019t necessarily do. Sometimes negative inspiration\u2014\u201cI\u2019d never do it like this!\u201d\u2014can be powerful, too. You can also read nonfiction about writing-related topics like creativity, habit formation, sociology, and psychology. These nonfiction fields have all taken off in the last few decades, with a lot of complicated concepts broken down to appeal to lay readers. Writers tend to collect information and seek to understand the human experience. Reading is a powerful way of doing so, even when you\u2019re not currently creating.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Revisit <em>The Artist&#8217;s Way<\/em> by Julia Cameron<\/strong>: <em>The Artist\u2019s Way<\/em> is a renowned book that serves as a guide to unlocking creativity and overcoming artistic blocks. Through practices such as morning pages and artist dates, Cameron encourages writers to nurture their inner artist and establish a consistent creative routine. By incorporating these exercises into your daily life, you can cultivate a supportive environment for your creativity to flourish. The book acts like a guide and offers structure. If you haven\u2019t read it before, it\u2019s worth your while. If you haven\u2019t read it in a while, you might find that you love slipping back into this warm and encouraging resource.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Embrace Play and Inspiration<\/strong>: If you get into <em>The Artist\u2019s Way<\/em>, you will be reminded that the state of being a writer isn\u2019t just one you access while writing. You can take time to nurture yourself and seek inspiration off the page. Take yourself out on solo excursions to explore new environments, art galleries, museums, or nature spots\u2014this is the \u201cartist date\u201d suggestion, described above. Engaging in activities that inspire and rejuvenate your spirit can spark fresh ideas and perspectives. If you invest in yourself, and make valuable time for self-reflection, you might find that this will allow you to connect with your inner muse. Seeking inspiration also divorces creativity from its product\u2014you might not actively create anything when you take time to seek inspiration, but you also never know how your experiences will pay off. Creativity is like a well that needs constant replenishment. Seek out ideas and experiences that resonate with you\u2014whether it&#8217;s listening to music, watching films, or engaging in hobbies and meeting new people. Surround yourself with beauty and ideas that stimulate your imagination.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Observe Life as Writers Do<\/strong>: Writers are keen observers of the world around them. Pay attention to details, emotions, conversations, and experiences that unfold in your daily life. You could notice a snippet of dialogue, or be captivated by an interesting person at the grocery store. No wonder we call these individuals \u201ccharacters,\u201d they might be fodder for a piece of writing. By honing your observational skills, you can draw inspiration from seemingly mundane moments and infuse authenticity into your creative self-expression. After all, readers want to relate, and they want to recognize ideas and details from their own lives in the stories they consume. You need to live with your eyes and ears open to stock up on these potentially resonant nuggets.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Write <em>Anything<\/em><\/strong>: Even if you\u2019re not writing the book of your heart at the moment, you can still keep up with writing anything to keep your engine block warm. Freewriting, poetry, journal entries, a \u201cletter to the editor\u201d that you don\u2019t plan to send, a long caption for an Instagram post\u2014all of these are valid outlets of written self-expression. Keep your creativity churning by writing, no matter what. It\u2019s fine to skip days or weeks or even months, but if you\u2019re doing the things on this list, you will feel like you\u2019re making progress, even if you take your eyes off of your magnum opus for a bit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Switch Projects or Take a Break<\/strong>: Dovetailing with the above, if you&#8217;re feeling stuck on a particular project, don\u2019t be afraid to set it aside temporarily or switch gears and work on something else. Sometimes shifting focus can reignite your passion for writing and bring fresh energy to your creative process. Remember that taking breaks or focusing on something else for a while is essential for recharging your creativity and preventing burnout, so don\u2019t feel bad if you\u2019re called to work on a different idea. (There\u2019s obviously a balance to be struck between persevering with a project when the going gets tough and avoiding \u201cshiny object syndrome,\u201d which see you following a bunch of distractions.) The more you write and create, the better you\u2019ll know yourself and can understand your behaviors and motives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As an aspiring writer navigating the highs and lows of the creative journey, you will want to prioritize self-care and balance, especially when things get tough. By implementing strategies like the above, you can nurture your creative spirit, no matter what else is going on in your life and work. Remember that creativity thrives when you\u2019re able to offer yourself grace, resilience, and patience. If you can claim your identity as an artist, that\u2019s one big step toward figuring out how to nurture yourself and take your dreams and passions seriously.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marykole.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Mary Kole<\/a><br>As a former literary agent, I know all about the ins and outs of the publishing industry. But my favorite part has always been working directly with writers, so I founded Mary Kole Editorial in 2013 to provide consulting and <a href=\"https:\/\/marykole.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">developmental editing services<\/a> to clients of all categories and genre<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Then I founded Good Story Company in 2019 with the aim of creating valuable content\u2014like the <a href=\"https:\/\/goodstorypodcast.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Good Story Podcast<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/youtube.com\/goodstory\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">YouTube channel<\/a>, and <a href=\"https:\/\/goodstorycompany.com\/membership\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Good Story Learning<\/a> classes and resources. My <a href=\"https:\/\/www.storymastermind.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Story Mastermind<\/a> small group workshop intensives helps writers level up their craft, and I offer done-for-you writing and ghostwriting at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.manuscriptstudio.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Manuscript Studio<\/a> and marketing services with <a href=\"https:\/\/goodstorycompany.com\/marketing\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Good Story Marketing<\/a>. I also develop unique and commercial intellectual property for middle grade, young adult, and adult readers with <a href=\"https:\/\/upswellmedia.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Upswell Media<\/a> and Bittersweet Books (website forthcoming).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I hold an MFA in Creative Writing and have worked at Chronicle Books, the Andrea Brown Literary Agency, and Movable Type Management. My blog, <a href=\"https:\/\/kidlit.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Kidlit.com<\/a> has been going since 2009, and my book, <em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/1599635763\/ref=as_li_qf_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=kidlit0f-20&amp;creative=9325&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;creativeASIN=1599635763&amp;linkId=e50a3a5c4b9bb57b58eb84cc80ee3c3c\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Writing Irresistible Kidlit<\/a><\/em>, a writing reference guide for middle grade and young adult writers, is available from Writer&#8217;s Digest Books\/Penguin Random House.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Photo Credit: Erin VonRuden Guest Blogger Mary Kole writes about the creative journey: As much as I wish this wasn\u2019t the case, the creative life is full of ebbs and flows, highs and lows, and any other image you want to ascribe to the push and pull of the artistic temperament. 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