An Award . . . Prompt #498

  • An Award . . . Prompt #498

    Write about an award you received or a recognition you achieved.

    Or write about a goal you accomplished.

  • Writer’s Block While Sheltering in Place

    Guest Blogger Kathy Guthormsen shares her writer’s block woes while sheltering in place. Perhaps you can relate.

    Shelter in Place Writer’s Block

    Sheltering in place has taken all the words from my brain

    Inspiration has disappeared

    My muses are sheltering elsewhere

    I am numb

    I sit at my desk

    I start my computer and open three works-in-process

    I drink my coffee

    I eat my breakfast

    I read the paper

    I work the sudoku puzzle

    I stare at the word jumble trying to make sense of the randomly arranged letters

    I read my works-in-process and make some edits

    I write a few sentences on a new document

    I work an online sudoku puzzle

    I check email

    I check Facebook

    I write items on my to-do list

    I delete the sentences I wrote earlier and beg my muses to speak to me

    I look at writing prompts

    I make more edits to the works-in-process

    I write random phrases on the new document

    I sigh

    I do a load of laundry

    I go for a walk, wearing a mask

    I go to the grocery store, wearing a mask

    I clean out the chicken coop and the cat box and realize I should be wearing a mask for those tasks

    I look at recipes and decide what to make for dinner

    I sit at my desk again and type a few more sentences

    I save all the open documents

    I decide not to post anything on my blog – again

    I realize what’s wrong

    I miss people

    I miss hugs

    I miss my muses

    I long to get lost in writing again

    I want my characters to take me to unexpected places again

    I ask the magic of writing to visit me again

    Kathy Guthormsen

    Growing up in Skagit Valley, Washington with its verdant farmland gave Kathy an appreciation for the promise of nature’s bounty. The Cascade and Olympic mountain ranges and old growth forests offered the magic of things unseen.

    Occasionally her magical muses refuse to talk with her. She fills those times with gardening, books, chores, puzzles, and lists.

    Kathy’s work has been published in The Write Spot: Memories and The Write Spot: Possibilities, available both in print and as ereaders at Amazon.

    You can see more of Kathy’s creative writing on her blog, Kathy G Space, where she posts essays, short stories, and fairy tales.

  • Today I wish . . . Prompt #497

    What do you wish for?
    If you could have a wish come true today, what would it be?

  • This or that. Just do it!

    Guest Blogger Ruth Harris writes about the realities of trying to write while sheltered in place.

    You might have thought because you’re staying at home that you’d have more free time to start/finish a book or take an on-line yoga class. But in reality, because we’re all spending so much time at home, much of that time is consumed by eating which means food prep and cooking (which means there’s a kitchen to clean and dishes to be washed), bathrooms to be cleaned and tidied plus, of course, more toilet paper to be purchased (if we can even scrounge up a few rolls somewhere), laundry duty, garbage and trash removal, dusting, vacuuming and, of course, sanitizing.

    As one day melts seamlessly into the next, and we can’t tell Sunday from Tuesday, weekdays from weekends.

    Our moods whiplash between “This sucks” and “It could be worse.”

    We’re bored, anxious, and tired. We’re having trouble sleeping and concentrating. Much less writing.

    “A lot of us are mentally exhausted, because the energy it takes to mentally manage everything that’s happening is very draining,” says Vaile Wright, director of clinical research and quality for the American Psychological Association. “The habits we’ve worked to develop over time to keep us healthy and productive can fall by the wayside.”

    It’s not just you.

    Feeling overwhelmed by an Everest of laundry or frustrated by a cranky TV remote even as we are bombarded by relentless reports of death and disease, does not contribute to creativity.

    Instead of fighting what can feel like an unwinnable battle with the lack of inspiration, let’s consider what we can do that does not take the same level of intense concentration as writing.

    Why not take advantage of these strange days to focus on ways we can improve our skills or acquire new ones?

    1. Author Platform Care And Maintenance.

    Use this Covid-19 pause to reconsider and refresh the elements of your author platform.

    2. Better Blurbs For Better Living.

    Are your (book) blurbs OK?

    As we’ve been told over and over, the cover is the first thing that grabs the reader’s attention. The cover tells him/her what kind of book s/he is looking at: romance (sweet or steamy), women’s fiction, mystery, thriller, horror, sci-fi.

    The blurb (also known as the sales pitch, cover copy, or on Amazon, the “product description”) is the second.

    But once you grabbed/seduced/lured the reader, then what?

    Then you have to make the sale—and that’s where the blurb comes in.

    At a time when you’re finding it difficult to write, refreshing an existing blurb can be a productive use of your time, a satisfying outlet for your creativity and an opportunity to increase your sales.

    3. M Is For Metadata.

    Review your categories.

    David Gaughran tells us that “KDP is now explicitly stating that we are permitted TEN categories for each of our books.”

    If you haven’t already signed up for DG’s newsletter—he keeps a sharp eye on publishing and is generous about sharing info—now would be a good time.

    Revisit your keywords.

    Out with the old. In with the new—and more relevant.

    Dave Chesson’s Publisher Rocket does the tedious work of searching for keywords (and does ditto for categories) that will help make your book more visible to browses and readers.

    4. Brainstorm for Brilliance.

    When you can’t write, maybe you can brainstorm, which is, after all, the fun part. When you let loose, when you forget about sparkling prose, passive verbs and adverb infestation, who knows what brilliant thoughts are just lurking in your subconscious, waiting to be unleashed?

    5. Liberate Your Inner Artist.

    If your sales—and income—have been hit by Covid, DIY art and graphics are more appealing than ever. Learning your way around on-line art sites can be fun that yields practical results.

    Maybe you’d like to try making a cover even though you’re not a designer.

    Perhaps you could jazz up your blog, Instagram feed, or FaceBook page with a new banner.

    Or refresh your ads, create a new business card or bookmark.

    6. Orphaned Books. You Know, The Kind That Don’t Spark Joy.

    If you’re stuck at home, but, like so many of us, the words won’t come and you can’t write, perhaps this period of enforced down time is ideal for you to revisit unfinished and abandoned books. Maybe the solutions to the problems that once stopped you in frustration, will become apparent now that some time has passed.

    Plot holes—they’re not forever.

    Janet Evanovich’s simple method of not-exactly-outlining might help you figure out where you’ve gone wrong and how to go forward.

    7. Strengthen Your Characters.

    If the plot’s OK, but the characters are wooden (or maybe plastic—and you’re not writing sci-fi), now might be the right time to pay them a visit and give them a pulse.

    Here are 8 suggestions about how to create a memorable character.

    8. Embrace That Crappy First Draft.

    Typos.

    Clichés.

    Passive verbs.

    Banal descriptions.

    Lapses in logic.

    Adverbs!

    We’ve all committed these sins (and more because we’re creative), but, because we take our work and our readers seriously, we don’t give up.

    Henry Guinness at the NYT calls himself “a big fan of awful first drafts” and shares a useful trick about how to use that embarrassing first draft to move toward a finished product you can be proud of.

    9. Learn to Self-Edit.

    Harry Guinness goes on to explain: “The secret to good writing is good editing.”

    As a long-time editor, I would go even further and say that good editing is (almost) everything. Obviously, you have to get the words down first, but, after that, multiple rounds of editing will help you clarify your thinking and lead to a polished work in a way that can seem (almost) magic.

    Another plus is that several rounds of self-editing before you unleash your work on the public or on your editor will save you one-star reviews and your editor time. Which will consequently will save you money.

    10. How to Feel like a Real Writer.

    If none of these ideas appeal to you or if you’re just feeling generally blah, why not do what real writers do?

    Procrastinate. 🙂

    Excerpted from Anne R. Allen’s Blog… with Ruth Harris by Ruth Harris.(@RuthHarrisBooks) April 26, 2020

    Click here to read the entire blog post, which is chock full of gems.

    Ruth Harris is a New York Times and Amazon bestselling author and a Romantic Times award winner. Ruth’s emotional, entertaining fiction has topped Amazon’s prestigious Movers and Shakers list and her highly praised novels have sold millions of copies in hard cover, paperback and ebook editions, been translated into 19 languages, sold in 30 countries, and were prominent selections of leading book clubs including the Literary Guild and the Book Of The Month Club. In their e-book editions, Ruth’s novels have been featured on Ereader News Today, Pixel of Ink and Kindle Nation Daily.

    Ruth writes about strong, savvy, witty women who struggle to succeed and, when sometimes they don’t get what they want, they find something even better along the way. Critics have compared Ruth to Nora Ephron and Joan Didion and called her books “brilliant,” “steamy,” “stylishly written,” ”richly plotted,” “first-class entertainment” and “a sure thing.”

  • What are you noticing? Prompt #495

    No matter where you live, you most likely are experiencing Shelter in Place, or SIP.

    Where I live, Northern California, it looks like we’ll have another month of SIP.

    Our first day of SIP was March 17, 2020. Today is Day 44 of Shelter in Place. It’s an interesting time, isn’t it? Weird. Surreal. You probably have many adjectives you can use to describe this experience.

    Writing Prompt: What are you noticing?

  • Surviving SIP

    Guest Blogger Karen Handyside Ely writes about life while sheltering in place.

    2020 has been the longest year of my life, and it’s only April. I really can’t complain (although that has never stopped me before). My adult children, who live in New York City, are healthy and still employed. My husband and I are well, and since I started hoarding toilet paper back in the ‘80s (that is an OCD story for another day) we are literally “good to go.”

    I’ve noticed as the days drag by, that I’m slowly getting used to this new reality. Getting used to it, and getting fat. In the very beginning, back in “aught March,” I decided that this was an opportunity to actively pursue FINALLY becoming skinny. I’ve now failed four diets in four weeks. It doesn’t help to have a husband who loves to bake. In the best of times, his sourdough is hard to resist. In these worst of times, I have given up trying. By the time I am able to meet up with friends in the flesh, I will have become a sphere.

    For now, I’ve had to content myself with Zoom meet-ups. I am no spring chicken, and admit that I had never even heard of this video-conferencing platform. Hilarity ensued as I tried to be an old dog learning a new trick, a humbling yet rewarding experience. I’m now able to attend meetings, writing groups, and Happy Hours with friends from all over the globe. This too is a double-edged sword; the vino flows much more freely when you are sitting in your own kitchen, watching a screen, and missing your buds – another contributing factor to my expanding girth.

    My writing has taken on a rather bi-polar existence. When writing on my own, the words either pour out on the page like torrential rain, or they dribble and drab like a leaky faucet; NO in between. Then every Tuesday, I “Zoom” with a small gathering of writing friends, and we free-write together. There is something so intimate about this virtual experience, and no, it is not because pants aren’t required to attend. This new reality has become a sort of bonding mechanism between us, which enhances the writing sessions. I write with a sharper focus during these group endeavors, even as my self-disciple has gone the way of my diets. I had hoped to have cranked out a book by now, so much free time and all, but while I have fallen woefully short on quantity, I am progressing with quality. 

    I’ve been spending lots of time in my music room, which is filled with musical instruments that were played by my daughter, my son, and me over many years. I’m very rusty, and the piano needs tuning, but when I close my eyes I am able to remember some of the music that brought us closer together. Sadly, my fingers don’t recollect quite as well, but the music brings me solace, even with the clinkers. 

    I’ve read several good books, along with some trashy romance novels. I’ve watched some stellar movies, and binged on some Netflix series that I am embarrassed to admit I watched. Sometimes a little “junk” is good for the soul, but I dream of the day that the Symphony reopens, and I can go back to gorging on beautiful, live music. I have also put myself on a news diet – only one hour of televised news a day. It is the only diet that I have not yet failed at, and I am feeling much more fit, at least mentally.   

    To relieve stress, I stand in my backyard and howl every evening at 8 pm. No, I haven’t “lost it.” Howling has become quite a “thing” here in Petaluma. It feels so good to let-er-rip, not a scream, but a loud, long, mournful howl. Even more gratifying than making this primal sound, is hearing neighbors in their yards howling back. It reminds me that we are in this together, and promises that we will get through this as a community. We are not alone.

    Togetherness has taken on a completely different meaning since the onset of this quarantine. My baking husband and I do almost everything together. We take long walks, discovering nooks and crannies in this town that we’ve always been too busy to explore; albeit with covered faces. We twist ourselves into ridiculous pretzels every afternoon, as we try to maintain some semblance of a yoga practice. We spend so much time together, that a fifteen minute shower alone feels like a solo week-end getaway. I don’t know how he does it … puts up with so much “us time”…  right now I am even sick of myself.

    Honestly, I am tremendously blessed in many ways. I have slowed down, and started to savor the small, everyday things in life. I hear the bees buzzing among our wildflowers, watch the sun set behind my oak tree, and taste the love that my wonderful husband pours into every meal that he makes—although I’m hoping he’ll love me with salad a little more often. 

    Be safe and well, my friends. With kindness, compassion, and a strong dose of humor, this too shall pass.

    Growing up in Petaluma, CA, Karen adored words and stories. She taught herself to read by memorizing pages of the fairytales that her mother read at night to all of the Handyside siblings. The Little Mermaid was her entry into a lifelong love affair with books and writing.

    After graduating from UC Davis with a degree in International Relations & Economics, Karen ran away to New York City to seek her fortune. Karen found that working in NYC Corporate banking wasn’t all that it was cracked up to be. She and her husband, James, moved to Scottsdale AZ, where they raised their family. A stay-at-home mom, Karen became a professional (and somewhat out of control) volunteer, working primarily with children’s charities and Arts Education Programs. 

    Once their chicks left the nest, Karen and James returned to Petaluma. Karen began to focus on the things that she most enjoys doing—music, writing, and travel. Karen and James often travel to Brooklyn to visit their son and daughter.

    Karen is active with the Santa Rosa Symphony League, sings with a Petaluma choir, and has been published in The Write Spot to Jumpstart Your Writing: DiscoveriesThe Write Spot: Reflections, and The Write Spot: Possibilities (all available on Amazon).

  • What do you do now? Prompt #494

    How has your life changed with shelter in place?

    What do you do now that’s different?

    Make a list of your current activities.

    Write about your day.

    What do you do now?

    Use any of these writing seeds to Just Write.

  • Write during stressful times.

    “We need people who are taking the stress of this time and turning it into art, even if it’s solely for the effect it has on the artist.” — Nathan Bransford

    Guest Blogger Nathan Bransford shares tips about how to write during stressful times.

    Writing  is one of the best ways we have to turn darkness into light.

    Here are some tips that have worked for me [Nathan] when I needed to write and life circumstances were interfering in a big way:

    ~If you have the means and ability to write during this time, you have it really good. Recognize your luck. Let that privilege sink in. Let it guide you toward being a better and more generous person.

    ~Self-quarantining and working from home might free up time, which could feel like a huge opportunity that you don’t want to pass up.

    But paradoxically, having a lot of time to write can actually slow you down. And that’s during calm times. You’re probably not going to work as quickly as you normally do. Don’t beat yourself up about it.

    ~ The benefits of meditation for writing during times of anxiety.

    Excepted from “Writing in a time of anxiety,” Nathan Bransford’s March 15, 2020 Blog Post.

    Nathan Bransford is the author of How to Write a Novel and the Jacob Wonderbar series.

    Nathan is dedicated to helping authors chase their dreams. His blog has everything you need to know to write, edit, and publish a book. Nathan is available for manuscript edits, query critiques, and coaching!

  • Uneasy? You’re not alone.

    Today’s Guest Blogger Lara Zielin:

          I often have the feeling I’m in trouble

          It’s this pervasive unease, like I’m doing something wrong.

          The problem is, I don’t know WHAT I’m doing wrong. Which means that if or when I get in trouble, it’s going to be a terrible surprise. 

          Because of this, I have my antennae up all day, scanning, looking, wondering what I could be doing that’s awful. I mind my P’s and Q’s and I try so hard to do everything right. I try to stay busy.

          I try to be so, so good. 

          But some part of me knows it won’t be enough. Trouble is still a-comin’. 

          Which means by the time I get to the end of the day, there is this exhausted part of me that is BEYOND READY to feel safe. To feel good enough. To feel comforted. 

          That part of me wants to eat ALL the carbs. And drink. And scroll Facebook. And numb, numb, numb. Because it’s painful out there, people. 

          This feeling has only gotten worse during the COVID-19 pandemic. 

          Without regular face-to-face check-ins with colleagues and friends, the gnawing unease that I’ve done something wrong only grows. My hankering for carbs only grows. My addiction to Netflix and my phone only grows. 

          That is, until I stop running and face the darkness. Until I open my arms to the fear and to the pain of thinking I’m not enough and just … sit with it. 

          I’ve been doing a LOT of writing around this lately. And I’m here for you if you want to do some writing around this, too.

          Instead of trying to run from the darkness, let’s invite it in. Let’s listen to it. And let’s meet it with love. 

          Because that’s the ONLY thing that’s going to help us feel better, feel lighter, and feel whole. If we run from the darkness, it will only continue to chase us. But if we embrace it, we can let it complete us. 
          To help us do just that, Lara is leading a free one-hour online group writing time on Thursday, April 23. 
          

    Note from Marlene: If you need ideas for relaxing and de-stressing, here ya go. You might already be doing some of these.

    I’m working on the next Write Spot book and will include these self-care tips and more!

    Creativity Coaching

    Alisha Wielfaert 

    Suzanne Murray

    Hypnotherapy

    Ted A. Moreno

    Inspiration

    Hands Free Mama – Rachel Macy Stafford

    Meditate

    Gaiam

    Headspace

    Insight Timer

    Mindful

    Movement

    Dance

    Ten minute Qi Gong

    Yoga

    And, of course. Write. Write what you know. Write what you want to know. Just write. If you need writing prompts, take a look at The Write Spot Blog.